While most of the things I write have some sort of comic relief, this is something that I’m very passionate about. I’ve been through it and believe it at my very core. It will come across as direct and straightforward. However, I think it needs to be said. By no means am I meaning to offend the way that anyone has lived his or her life. Throughout our life we look for hero figure, someone to mimic that we can look to for inspiration. We find a great deal respect and admiration for them. These are the people that help everyone, never cheat, never lie; they are epitome of greatness in our eyes.
An internal problem becomes, while we look at them, we devalue ourselves. Deep within we know what’s wrong with us. We may steal, lie, drink too much, can’t stop watching porn, lazy, the list can go on and on. We aren’t the heroes of our story. We never will be able to stack up because we know our weaknesses and flaws. The problem is you have to be the hero of your own fucking story. Life doesn’t work if you’re not the hero.
Here’s the thing, you can and must be the hero of your story. You can be the hero of your story today. You can decide right this very second that you’re going to change. You can decide that you’re not your past. You can decided that you’re not all the times you fucked up, you’re not the person that can’t stop drinking, you’re not the person that becomes angry over every little thing, you’re not the person that is depressed with no self esteem, you’re not the person that isn’t living their dream cause you’re too scared. You can change right now. It doesn’t matter if you’re 50 or 19.
Stop fucking worrying about what anyone else thinks about you or what you think about yourself. Do what you have to do for you and don’t give a shit what anyone else thinks. Start working out, start doing things for other people, start being the nicest person out there. Be a product of learning from your past. Use your past experiences to become a better more improved you. Stop living and believing this is how life will always be. You’re not your past; you are who you are this very moment in time. Don’t wait for tomorrow to change, do it right this second. You’ll have haters, you’ll have doubters, you’ll have people that will never believe, but it doesn’t matter.
Be the hero of your own damn story. Stop the lie you’ve told yourself that things are always the way they have to be. Stop worrying about all the people you’ve wronged and all the mistakes you’ve made and decided right this second you’re going to change. You can live the life you wanted. You can be the person you’ve always wanted to be but change has to start now. Figure out a way to enjoy this life. Dig deep down figure out in which you believe the best way to live your life is and go do it. Stop making excuses for yourself. Believe and change because it all starts within.
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